Role Reversal Play
Posted in Intimacy, Likes & dislikes, Play, Role Playing, Sex, Toys on 04/01/2011 09:57 pm by Clinton JohnsonIt’s no secret that I have a bit of an anal fetish. I’m feeling way too lazy to read my archives but I swear I have touched on it on this blog even. I like some anal play. Before Penny would actually let me try anal sex with her I offhandedly told her that if she let me she could get a strap on and do it back to me. Of course we laughed about it and it never happened. She has tried anal intercourse with me several times and hasn’t really gotten anything out of it in the best case scenario. In the worst she finds it incredibly painful.
Penny has been more adventurous with all kinds of play recently. In February I confessed on Quizzical Pussy that once during oral play Penny asked me to shove a vibrator in her ass and fuck her pussy hard. I happily complied and it was wonderful for both of us. Feeling the buzzing from the vibrator through the tissue between her anus and vagina was incredibly stimulating to me. Additionally there haven’t been too many occasions that I’ve seen that girl cum so hard. And that’s really saying something because she has a lot of good orgasms!
Fast forward to now. Penny has remarked several times in passing recently that she wants to get a strap on so she can fuck me. The first time she did I thought she was teasing but as she repeats it she’s starting to make me think that she actually means it. I hadn’t seriously thought about doing something like that. I am so repulsed by other men that I could never see getting in the same recreational bed with one but a hot chick with a strap on is a different story altogether. In all honesty the idea sounds kind of exciting. Getting anally pounded by my sexy wife and her plastic friend? Yeah. Kind of hot.
If we do buy a strap on I imagine we’ll want to make sure to have some options on the dong itself. Also I may push for a harness that I could also wear and hit her with some DP action. Not that she would necessarily be into that but I’d like to keep the options open. The biggest problem I can see is that those things are expensive! I’ve seen quite a few cheaper ones but it seems that you get what you pay for on some things. I’d just hate to put down the money on one and then find that we weren’t really that into it. Anybody have any suggestions?
04/02/2011 at 3:19 pm
I would think she might want to go for something like this in combination with a harness. (They tend to slip out without a harness.) But she could probably get a lot more out of something like that than just a dildo. You’d of course need a conventional dildo for your DP plans, but perhaps something you already have would work.
04/02/2011 at 3:29 pm
Actually this is the page I should have linked, the “normal” silicone Feeldoe.
04/05/2011 at 3:22 pm
We’ve actually both been looking at these things. Mostly because QP won’t shut up about hers.
Butt… I mean ‘but’ that’s a steep investment for something that might not pan out for us.
04/02/2011 at 7:50 pm
I’m hoping this isn’t a joke (you never know; pegging is a never-in-a-million-years proposition for some people) because yes. YES. A hot woman with a strap-on is wicked hot.
And I back up Mousie on the Feeldoe. It is phenomenal. I recently lent a special lady friend mine and she proceeded to fuck me with it. I cannot emphasize HOW MUCH FUCKING FUN IT WAS enough. Simply brilliant. Then I made her come just by pushing the phallus end down and letting the bulb massage her g-spot.
If pegging doesn’t end up being your thing, the Feeldoe is still really, really fun to jack off with (or just use as a traditional dildo), no additional orifice required. The toy is an investment, yes, but if Penny likes insertable toys, it probably won’t go to waste.
I recommend the blue “Slim” model for beginning anal play. The purple “regular” is too girthy for my ass, at least. I don’t find that a harness is strictly necessary, but it’s good to have one. A cheapo g-string harness should suffice, just to add a little security. I got this one a while back, and it does the job.
As you can see, I take this shit seriously.
04/05/2011 at 3:36 pm
LOL! No this was not a joke post. I didn’t even think about the fact that it was the first when I posted that entry. That’s hilarious! Penelope and I talked about this after she read my entry. It turns out that this really is something that she wants to pursue.
After reading all the great stuff you’ve had to say about the Feeldoe it is definitely up there in the running but GGGGAAAAAAHHHHH it’s expensive! However you make good points about the “Slim” which seems to be the least expensive of their offerings. Ironically I’d probably go ahead and spring for the vibrating option, because I’m a sucker for some buzz.
As to harnessing I’d be afraid that a harness would be pretty necessary for pegging. I don’t know whether you’ve used yours on Laramy but it seems like an anus could get a better grip on the big end than a vagina on the little end. I may be way underestimating the power of pussy but I just can’t see it. I think you’re right in that a cheapo harness will be the way to go at first. If we like it and the harness proves necessary I’d probably like to get something nicer after we establish these things.
And thank you for the input!
05/06/2011 at 8:17 am
I’ve fucked Minx with a dildo similar to the Feeldoe. Ass muscles are generally stronger than vag muscles, so it’s a difficult proposition, but we did manage it (I did have to keep my legs tight together or “my” end would start to slip). I agree that even if the Feeldoe didn’t work that well as a pegging toy, it would still be fun for other things. One day I decided to be a boy and Minx “jerked me off” to orgasm, which was pretty awesome. One day I want him to put the bulb end in his ass and fuck me with the penis-end.
Silicone is my preferred material for insertable toys: it’s odorless, tasteless, can be sterilized using boiling water or diluted bleach, and is firm without being ouchy-hard. Tantus makes some good stuff. Their “Acute” (http://tantusinc.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=TD&Product_Code=ACUTENEON&Category_Code=DI) is my favourite dong to use with a harness. Straight dongs always hang at an awkward angle (maybe it’s just me) and I have to always be guiding them with my hand, but the Acute has that awesome upward curve. It’s also (in my opinion) the perfect size – big enough that you know it’s there but not terrifying-huge.
…And I’m not sure whether you have opinions on lube (I haven’t read many entries here) but Colt brand silicone lube is really, really good – nice and thick and it stays slippery forever. Normally you’re not supposed to use silicone lube with silicone toys, but Colt is…super-pure, or something, so you can.